Chat to sexy mums
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We advise you that the views expressed within the chat room are only those of individual members. But remember that chat is a group thing - if you want to have a personal conversation, you can use the private messaging system by double clicking on their name. It may be that someone could still say something you are offended by.I found that the further my husband and I went from having sex the more embarassed I became and the more distant we were.It's almost like having sex for the very first time. There are lots of factors for losing your libido, mine isn't fixable just yet as I am awaiting an appointment with the Hospital but you sound so desperate to fix this problem I would try and speak to the Doctor. I find sometimes if I "plan" an early night in my mind during the day, then I'm up for it when it comes to bed time as I've been looking forward to it.... How early do your children wake, could you try for something then, when maybe you have more energy?? I find that can help make me feel more attractive...It's natural that you are tired but I do think the first port of call is the Doctor and a makeover to boot. I dont think anythings wrong, it can just be difficult sometimes.... i was on the depo for a few years and had zero sex drive during that time.
Suddenly, you'll collect a whole bunch of friends you didn't have before, just because you're all moms. Many of these mom friends are just other women with children the same age as yours who you run into at daycare, in baby classes or on the playground.
I hate the way I look, don't feel sexy at all & just can't be bothered.